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Its used to display a completely different point, but it reminded me of it. You're too right about the conversation being spun to "But I'm NOT A RACIST / HOW DARE YOU." Thing is they're ALWAYS going to come at it from that point of view, because being called a racist has become more taboo than actually being one. Please reply back as I'm create and where you got this from or theme .